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First-person stories of identity, belonging and being seen. Guests speak candidly about the experiences that shaped them — across gender, race, disability, faith, sexuality and more — and what allies and organisations can learn from truly listening. These are the conversations at the heart of Inclusion Bites.

64 episodes on this topic

  • Artwork for Writing Belonging Into Being

    Episode 216 · 30 July 2026

    Writing Belonging Into Being

    with Michelle Lee Steiner

    In this episode of The Inclusion Bites Podcast, Joanne Lockwood is joined by Michelle Steiner to explore the realities and misconceptions surrounding learning disabilities, and the nuances of building belonging through self-expression.…

  • Artwork for Resilience Without Shame

    Episode 215 · 23 July 2026

    Resilience Without Shame

    with Nancy Ferraro

    In this episode of The Inclusion Bites Podcast, Joanne Lockwood has a deeply candid conversation with guest Nancy Ferraro about the realities of resilience, trauma parenting, and overcoming shame. Nancy discusses her experience of adopting…

  • Artwork for Resilience Beyond Barriers

    Episode 214 · 16 July 2026

    Resilience Beyond Barriers

    with Misbah Gulzar

    In this episode of The Inclusion Bites Podcast, Joanne Lockwood explores the theme of resilience and identity with guest Misbah Gulzar. Against the backdrop of cultural expectations and the evolution of societal norms, Misbah shares her…

  • Artwork for Fear As A Superpower

    Episode 210 · 22 May 2026

    Fear As A Superpower

    with Dr Gwen Patrone

    In this episode of Inclusion Bites, Joanne Lockwood speaks with Dr. Gwen Patrone about fear, resilience and the process of living more authentically. Gwen describes how military training, professional experience and personal reflection…

  • Artwork for Reclaiming Intimate Connection

    Episode 208 · 7 May 2026

    Reclaiming Intimate Connection

    with Xanet Pailet

    In this episode, Jo Lockwood speaks with sex and intimacy educator Xanet Pailet about what it takes to restore intimacy in long-term relationships. The conversation focuses on how emotional disconnection, shame, stress, and routine can…

  • Artwork for Belonging Beyond Borders

    Episode 203 · 3 April 2026

    Belonging Beyond Borders

    with Solveiga Jaskunas

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by HR consultant and keynote speaker Solveiga Jaskunas to explore what “belonging beyond borders” looks like when you build a life and career in a new country. Solveiga shares her journey from Lithuania to the…

  • Artwork for Dance With Difference

    Episode 200 · 12 March 2026

    Dance With Difference

    with Dr Khutso Madubanya

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by Dr Khutso Madubanya for a wide-ranging conversation about difference, identity, and what it takes to reclaim self-worth when the world keeps trying to define you. Khutso reflects on growing up in apartheid-era…

  • Artwork for Resilience Through Reinvention

    Episode 199 · 5 March 2026

    Resilience Through Reinvention

    with Bobbi Barrington

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by wisdom speaker and coach Bobbi Barrington for a candid conversation about resilience, reinvention, and the cost of living an inauthentic life. Bobbi shares her lived experience of transitioning later in life…

  • Artwork for Beyond Sight

    Episode 197 · 19 February 2026

    Beyond Sight

    with Hannah Cohen

    Hannah Cohen joins Joanne Lockwood to unpack what it means to navigate life with a visual impairment that many people don’t immediately see. Hannah shares how her sight loss developed, what “blindness as a spectrum” looks like in practice,…

  • Artwork for Bridging Silent Worlds

    Episode 196 · 12 February 2026

    Bridging Silent Worlds

    with Maria Gallucci

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by Maria Gallucci, a multi-award-winning realtor and author of Raised in Silence, to explore the realities of growing up as a hearing child of Deaf adults. Maria shares how American Sign Language shaped her family…

  • Artwork for Animating Queer Futures

    Episode 193 · 22 January 2026

    Animating Queer Futures

    with AJ Hannah

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by AJ Hannah, founder and creative director of FWDIO Studios, to talk about what it takes to build an indie animation studio committed to unapologetically queer, more representative storytelling. AJ shares why “a…

  • Artwork for The Art Of Authentic Living

    Episode 188 · 18 December 2025

    The Art Of Authentic Living

    with Sam Turlington

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by New York-based actor and multi-hyphenate creative Sam Turlington for a wide-ranging conversation about what it means to live authentically. Sam reflects on how curiosity and empathy shaped their path into…

  • Artwork for Beyond Reflection, Towards Belonging

    Episode 181 · 31 October 2025

    Beyond Reflection, Towards Belonging

    with Gillian Russell

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by Gillian Russell to explore what it means to move beyond reflection towards genuine belonging, in the context of a UK Supreme Court ruling on the definition of “woman” and its impact on trans people. They…

  • Artwork for The Courage To Be Seen

    Episode 176 · 19 September 2025

    The Courage To Be Seen

    with Ayce Kyptyn

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by somatic sexologist Ayce Kyptyn to explore what it really takes to be seen and to live in alignment with who you are, especially when society, faith, and community have taught you to hide. Ayce shares how…

  • Artwork for Proudly Authentic, Always Real

    Episode 174 · 5 September 2025

    Proudly Authentic, Always Real

    with Jodie Goodchild

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by Jodie Goodchild, an award-winning community creator and LinkedIn trainer, to explore what it looks like to be proudly authentic in business and in life. Jodie shares her journey of coming out as a lesbian, the…

  • Artwork for Belonging Across Borders

    Episode 171 · 14 August 2025

    Belonging Across Borders

    with Mina Sharif

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by writer and media producer Mina Sharif to explore what belonging looks like when your life spans countries, cultures and competing narratives. Mina reflects on being born in Afghanistan, raised in Canada as part…

  • Artwork for Building Bridges In A Biased World

    Episode 169 · 1 August 2025

    Building Bridges In A Biased World

    with Sonia Pérez

    Joanne Lockwood speaks with engineer and energy-industry leader Sonia Pérez about what it means to navigate a biased world while holding multiple, sometimes competing identities. Sonia reflects on her experience as a woman in a…

  • Artwork for Disrupting The Norm With Love

    Episode 168 · 24 July 2025

    Disrupting The Norm With Love

    with Heather Egginton

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by Heather Egginton, who describes her work as activating truth, trust, and love to help people connect more deeply with themselves and others. Together they explore how everyday “truths” can be inherited…

  • Artwork for Step Into My Shoes

    Episode 167 · 17 July 2025

    Step Into My Shoes

    with Rebecca Engle

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by Rebecca Engle, an autistic special education teacher, author, and advocate, for a candid conversation about what it has meant to grow up, study, and work while navigating autism. Rebecca reflects on early…

  • Artwork for Visibility, Empowerment And Authenticity

    Episode 165 · 4 July 2025

    Visibility, Empowerment And Authenticity

    with Raimonda Jankunaite

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by visibility and empowerment mentor Raimonda Jankunaite to explore what it means to be seen, heard and unapologetically yourself. Raimonda shares her personal journey, from growing up in Lithuania and later…

  • Artwork for Breaking The Disability Mould

    Episode 162 · 5 June 2025

    Breaking The Disability Mould

    with Lyndsay Mitcheson

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by Lindsay Mitchison, an award-winning disabled entrepreneur and founder of NeoWalk, to talk about what it means to “break the disability mould” and reclaim agency after life-changing health events. Lindsay…

  • Artwork for Speaking Truth To Power

    Episode 156 · 24 April 2025

    Speaking Truth To Power

    with Saba Ali

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by Saba Ali for a wide-ranging conversation about speaking truth to power and turning advocacy into institutional change. Saba shares her personal story, including childhood abuse and cultural abuse, periods of…

  • Artwork for Redefining Normal

    Episode 151 · 13 March 2025

    Redefining Normal

    with Crystal Jordan

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by autism advocate and author Crystal Jordan for a conversation about what it really means to “redefine normal” through the lens of autism and neurodiversity. Crystal shares how her son Zachariah’s diagnosis…

  • Artwork for Beyond Branding

    Episode 145 · 30 January 2025

    Beyond Branding

    with Samta Datta

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by brand marketing consultant Samta Datta for a wide-ranging conversation about why genuine connection matters more than polished branding. Samta shares how her work centres on understanding people’s insights,…

  • Artwork for No Expected Outcome

    Episode 141 · 2 January 2025

    No Expected Outcome

    with Steph VanHaverbeke

    Joanne Lockwood speaks with Steph VanHaverbeke, co-founder of the House of Coaching, about what happens when you stop chasing a fixed result and allow space for creativity and renewal. Steph shares a pivotal moment after a business…

  • Artwork for Talking Not Telling

    Episode 137 · 5 December 2024

    Talking Not Telling

    with Katie Allen

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by confidence coach and inclusion consultant Katie Allen to explore what it really means to “talk, not tell” in inclusion work. Together they unpack why people get stuck in ambiguity and fear saying the wrong…

  • Artwork for Claiming Each Other

    Episode 134 · 14 November 2024

    Claiming Each Other

    with Lorie Solis

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by somatic trauma worker and educator Lorie Solis to explore “Claiming Each Other” — Lorie’s approach to building resilient relationships when charged, values-led conflict shows up in our closest circles.…

  • Artwork for Fluency Forward

    Episode 131 · 24 October 2024

    Fluency Forward

    with Caroline Praveen

    Caroline Praveen shares how moving from India to the United States as a child reshaped her confidence, sense of self, and connection to her mother tongue as she learned English. She describes the long, uneven path from feeling like an…

  • Artwork for From Silence To Advocacy

    Episode 122 · 15 August 2024

    From Silence To Advocacy

    with Emma Riley

    Emma Riley joins Joanne Lockwood to recount her experience of serving in the Royal Navy at a time when being gay in the military was illegal, and how that forced silence shaped her sense of belonging and safety. Emma describes the…

  • Artwork for Embracing Neurodiversity And Queer Identities

    Episode 121 · 8 August 2024

    Embracing Neurodiversity And Queer Identities

    with Helen Davies

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by Helen Davies to explore the convergence of neurodiversity and queer identities, and what it can mean to navigate both at once. Helen shares how common the overlap can be within queer communities, and why…

  • Artwork for Kinks And All

    Episode 114 · 6 June 2024

    Kinks And All

    with Sarah Naylor

    Joanne Lockwood speaks with coach and creator Sarah Naylor about what it really means to embrace who you are — kinks, quirks and all — and why self-acceptance is the foundation for a happier life. Sarah shares how divorce and starting…

  • Artwork for Queer Stories Across Boarders

    Episode 110 · 16 May 2024

    Queer Stories Across Boarders

    with Georgie Williams

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by researcher and storyteller Georgie Williams to explore what we can learn from queer lives and communities across borders, and why narrowly defined gender and sexuality “boxes” fail to reflect human diversity.…

  • Artwork for From Resilience To Inspiration

    Episode 108 · 2 May 2024

    From Resilience To Inspiration

    with Paris Bartholomew

    Joanne Lockwood speaks with Paris Bartholomew, a speaker, writer, lecturer and trainer, about growing up in the British care system and the long path from instability and trauma to building a life rooted in empathy and purpose. Paris…

  • Artwork for Authenticity Unveiled

    Episode 96 · 1 February 2024

    Authenticity Unveiled

    with Lee Gilbert

    Lee Gilbert joins Joanne Lockwood to talk through what it took to move from decades of masking to living openly and authentically. Lee reflects on knowing she was transgender from childhood, the absence of information and role models in…

  • Artwork for Beyond The Closet

    Episode 94 · 18 January 2024

    Beyond The Closet

    with TJ Richards

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by TJ Richards for a wide-ranging conversation about what it means to move “beyond the closet” and live with fewer self-imposed boundaries. Together they explore how identity, safety, and belonging intersect, and…

  • Artwork for Mirrors And Doorways

    Episode 85 · 9 November 2023

    Mirrors And Doorways

    with Nonir Amicitia

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by author Nonir Amicitia, who co-writes as O E Tearmann, to explore the idea of “mirrors and doorways” in storytelling: mirrors that let marginalised readers see themselves as full characters, and doorways that…

  • Artwork for Uplifting Queer Genius

    Episode 83 · 27 October 2023

    Uplifting Queer Genius

    with Dr Joel A Davis-Brown

    Joanne Lockwood speaks with Dr Joel A Davis-Brown about what they call “queer genius”: the skills, values, and ways of navigating the world that many queer people develop through self-discovery, coming out, and living outside social norms.…

  • Artwork for Running On Linux

    Episode 81 · 21 September 2023

    Running On Linux

    with Sophie Power

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by talent lead and podcast host Sophie Power to explore what it feels like to discover, in adulthood, that you have been “running on a different operating system” all along. Sophie shares her experience of being…

  • Artwork for Too Black To Be White, And Too White To Be Black

    Episode 78 · 7 September 2023

    Too Black To Be White, And Too White To Be Black

    with Holly Straker-Humphreys

    Holly Straker-Humphreys reflects on growing up as a mixed-race woman in predominantly white spaces, and the long process of becoming comfortable “in the middle” of two worlds. She shares how subtle signals—especially around Afro hair,…

  • Artwork for Breath

    Episode 77 · 31 August 2023

    Breath

    with Jamie Read

    Joanne Lockwood talks with vocal coach and vocal health expert Jamie Read about how breath fuels the voice and how vocal choices shape the way we’re perceived in workplaces and everyday life. They unpack how anxiety, confidence, and…

  • Artwork for Lighting The Blue Touch Paper Of Understanding

    Episode 74 · 10 August 2023

    Lighting The Blue Touch Paper Of Understanding

    with Matt Gupwell

    Matt Gupwell joins Joanne Lockwood to unpack what he means by “lighting the blue touch paper of understanding”: giving people enough grounded knowledge about neurodiversity to start better conversations, rather than trying to turn a…

  • Artwork for Leaving No Stone Unturned

    Episode 72 · 13 July 2023

    Leaving No Stone Unturned

    with Arnaud Saint-Paul

    Joanne Lockwood speaks with Arnaud Saint-Paul about what it means to “leave no stone unturned” in understanding our lives: noticing repeating patterns, stepping off autopilot, and making conscious choices that realign us with who we are.…

  • Artwork for Unhiding at Work

    Episode 67 · 9 February 2023

    Unhiding at Work

    with Kat Kibben

    Kat Kibben joins Joanne Lockwood to explore what it means to hide and “unhide” at work, and the personal cost of living with two versions of yourself. Kat reflects on growing up in a military family, navigating conservative workplaces, and…

  • Artwork for Autism Rocks

    Episode 61 · 27 October 2022

    Autism Rocks

    with Sam Mitchell

    Sam Mitchell joins Joanne Lockwood to talk about why “autism rocks,” sharing how autism shapes his creativity, preference for structure, and day-to-day experiences navigating social cues. He reflects on being misunderstood, the impact of…

  • Artwork for Dare to be YOU!

    Episode 59 · 13 October 2022

    Dare to be YOU!

    with Shelley Bridgeman

    Joanne Lockwood speaks with performance coach, psychotherapist, and workshop facilitator Shelley Bridgeman about what it really takes to “dare to be you” — not as a slogan, but as a practice of peeling back protection, facing fear, and…

  • Artwork for Being on the periphery of society

    Episode 55 · 6 January 2022

    Being on the periphery of society

    with Khakan Qureshi

    Khakan Qureshi reflects on growing up feeling different and on the edges of multiple communities, from school playground dynamics and gender expectations to the pressures of culture, faith, and community norms. He describes how not fitting…

  • Artwork for Domestic abuse must not be tolerated

    Episode 53 · 23 December 2021

    Domestic abuse must not be tolerated

    with Andrew Pain

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by Andrew Pain to discuss why domestic abuse must not be tolerated, drawing on Andrew’s experience as a long-term victim in a former marriage and his subsequent campaigning work. They explore how domestic abuse…

  • Artwork for Assimilation is not necessary

    Episode 52 · 16 December 2021

    Assimilation is not necessary

    with Hung Lee

    Hung Lee, curator of Recruiting Brainfood, joins Joanne Lockwood to unpack the pressures many people feel to assimilate when living in a country where their ethnic background is not considered “native”. Drawing on his childhood experiences…

  • Artwork for Peeling back our layers to uncover our Essence

    Episode 51 · 9 December 2021

    Peeling back our layers to uncover our Essence

    with Michelle Mills-Porter

    Michelle Mills-Porter joins Joanne Lockwood to explore what it means to “peel back our layers” and uncover our essence Michelle recounts being caught in the 2004 Boxing Day tsunami in Sri Lanka, and how witnessing unexpected reactions in…

  • Artwork for Building steppingstones to a better future

    Episode 49 · 26 November 2021

    Building steppingstones to a better future

    with Rachel Oliver

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by broadcaster and presenter Rachel Oliver, a dual UK–Australian national who describes Australia as home and reflects on the winding path that brought her back to the UK. Rachel shares how a background in nursing…

  • Artwork for Living on the Edge

    Episode 45 · 16 September 2021

    Living on the Edge

    with Andi Maratos

    Andi Maratos and host Joanne Lockwood explore what it means to live “on the edge” of the mainstream, and how that perspective can make it easier to see the world differently and create safer spaces for others. Andi reflects on growing up…

  • Artwork for Losing the Labels

    Episode 44 · 9 September 2021

    Losing the Labels

    with Briana Tucker

    Briana Tucker describes what it feels like to live under constant scrutiny as a woman of colour in Wisconsin, where everyday situations can carry the risk of being stereotyped, labelled, or treated as a threat. She shares stark examples of…

  • Artwork for Being a woman in a man’s world

    Episode 42 · 26 August 2021

    Being a woman in a man’s world

    with Mandy Hickson

    Mandy Hickson, a former Royal Air Force Tornado GR4 pilot, joins Joanne Lockwood to talk about being one of the first women allowed to fly fast jets on the front line and what it meant to build a career in a strongly male-coded culture.…

  • Artwork for Standing in the middle and feeling excluded

    Episode 32 · 18 March 2021

    Standing in the middle and feeling excluded

    with Tom Morley

    Tom Morley joins Joanne Lockwood to unpack what it means to be “standing in the middle and feeling excluded” — a pattern that began in childhood as the youngest of four brothers, and followed him into adult life. Tom shares how he tried to…

  • Artwork for Personal is Political and How Silence Speaks

    Episode 30 · 4 March 2021

    Personal is Political and How Silence Speaks

    with Professor Laura Serrant OBE

    Professor Laura Serrant OBE joins Joanne Lockwood to unpack what it means for “the personal to be political”, and why our everyday experiences of inclusion, exclusion, and being given (or denied) equal chances reflect how society…

  • Artwork for Finding the Magic

    Episode 28 · 19 February 2021

    Finding the Magic

    with Mark Lee

    Mark Lee, a chartered accountant and long-time member of the Magic Circle, reflects on how he spent years hiding his love of magic from clients because he feared it would undermine his professional credibility. Through stories of awkward…

  • Artwork for Who am I, and Who are You?

    Episode 27 · 4 February 2021

    Who am I, and Who are You?

    with Roland Chester

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by Roland Chester for a wide-ranging conversation about identity, labels, and the “hats” we wear in different contexts. Together they explore how intersectionality shows up in everyday life and why being able to…

  • Artwork for Planting a seed of kindness and understanding

    Episode 21 · 24 December 2020

    Planting a seed of kindness and understanding

    with Ryals

    Ryals reflects on growing up gay in Ukraine, navigating shame, bullying, and the pressure to hide who he was while living through a period of upheaval and suppression. He shares how early messages from his parents, especially his…

  • Artwork for Autism from an Autistic parent's perspective

    Episode 18 · 15 October 2020

    Autism from an Autistic parent's perspective

    with Laurie Morgen

    Laurie Morgen joins Joanne Lockwood to talk about autism through the lens that’s often missing from public conversation: being an autistic parent. Drawing on their own family life and the stories shared with them since publishing their…

  • Artwork for Finding your courage and voice to speak out

    Episode 12 · 3 September 2020

    Finding your courage and voice to speak out

    with Madeline Black

    Madeline Black joins Joanne Lockwood to talk about what it took to find the courage to speak publicly about being gang raped at 13, and how shame and fear kept her silent for decades. She describes how victim-blaming culture and gaps in…

  • Artwork for How the term queer became cool again

    Episode 8 · 13 June 2020

    How the term queer became cool again

    with Joseph Galliano-Doig

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by Joseph Galliano-Doig, co-founder and CEO of Queer Britain, to explore how the word “queer” shifted from a weaponised slur to a reclaimed, inclusive umbrella term. They discuss generational differences in how…

  • Artwork for It’s all about Acceptance and Authenticity to be able to Achieve

    Episode 6 · 13 June 2020

    It’s all about Acceptance and Authenticity to be able to Achieve

    with Michael Cerasi

    Joanne Lockwood is joined by transformational life coach Michael Cerasi to explore his AAA philosophy: acceptance and authenticity as foundations for achievement. They unpack what active listening really means, why compassion matters, and…

  • Artwork for Swimming upstream against the flow!

    Episode 5 · 13 June 2020

    Swimming upstream against the flow!

    with Lewis Bell-Cawthra

    Lewis Bell-Cawthra reflects on what it has meant to “swim upstream” as a gay man moving from an accepting environment into a corporate recruitment culture where he experienced exclusion, stereotyping and homophobic abuse. He and Joanne…

  • Artwork for Embracing Diversity And Inclusion As A Small Business Owner

    Episode 2 · 13 June 2020

    Embracing Diversity And Inclusion As A Small Business Owner

    with Katie Neeves

    Katie Neeves joins Joanne Lockwood to talk about coming out publicly as transgender while running an established photography and filmmaking business, and the risks and uncertainties that came with that decision. Katie describes the…

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