Men Beyond Survival

In this episode, Joanne Lockwood speaks with bushcraft instructor and life coach Tom Gold about men’s wellbeing, identity, and the pressures that shape how men show up in the world. The conversation centres on the idea of moving beyond performative toughness and creating spaces where men can be present without having to fix, explain, or always speak.

Tom shares how his work outdoors, especially with men in recovery, uses practical wilderness skills, fire-making, and shared activity to build confidence, resilience, and belonging. He describes how campfire settings can make it easier for men to connect, listen, and speak when they are ready, while also offering a healthier alternative to isolation or harmful influences.

The episode also explores masculinity, male friendship, emotional expression, and the limits of advice-giving when someone simply needs to be heard. Joanne and Tom reflect on the importance of community, support, and understanding in helping men thrive, and on the need for inclusion work to recognise groups who may feel overlooked by broader conversations.