Resilience Beyond Barriers

In this episode of The Inclusion Bites Podcast, Joanne Lockwood explores the theme of resilience and identity with guest Misbah Gulzar. Against the backdrop of cultural expectations and the evolution of societal norms, Misbah shares her journey from a strict South Asian Muslim upbringing to forging her own path, both personally and professionally. Their conversation dives into the complex realities of arranged marriage, family expectations, and the arduous process of self-validation, with Joanne drawing parallels to her own experiences of seeking affirmation and acceptance. Together, they reflect on the transformation of tradition, the meaning of belonging, and the courage it takes to step beyond prescribed boundaries.

Misbah is a resilience-driven inclusion advocate whose career spans nearly twenty years in the criminal justice system. Drawing deeply on her own lived experience, she has navigated significant personal and societal hurdles: leaving a traditional family environment, rejecting an arranged marriage, and building a new life as a single parent of five. Misbah is passionate about nurturing psychologically safe, inclusive workplaces, and brings a unique perspective as both a woman of faith and an ethnic minority in senior leadership. Her professional insights into rehabilitation and resettlement within prisons are underpinned by her belief in potential, empathy, and the importance of role models in systems often devoid of representation. Misbah’s advocacy is animated by her commitment to authenticity and her drive to ensure her children inherit the freedom she fought to secure.

Throughout the episode, Joanne and Misbah examine the intersection of culture, gender, and societal systems—from the difficult decision to leave home and the weight of community judgement, to the challenges faced by those re-entering society after imprisonment. They highlight the power of self-determination, the need for honest reflection on cultural versus religious practices, and the critical role of resilience in the face of adversity, both at home and in the workplace.