Fear As A Superpower

In this episode of Inclusion Bites, Joanne Lockwood speaks with Dr. Gwen Patrone about fear, resilience and the process of living more authentically. Gwen describes how military training, professional experience and personal reflection helped her learn to slow fear down, analyse it and repurpose it into strength rather than letting it control her.

The conversation also explores Gwen’s lived experience as a trans woman, including dysphoria, identity alignment, family support, social acceptance and the challenges of navigating legal and medical systems in Florida. Joanne and Gwen discuss the importance of authenticity, self-acceptance and refusing to live split lives, alongside the loneliness and social pressures that can affect trans people.

A major thread throughout the discussion is the value of small acts of kindness, micro-validations and human connection. The episode closes with practical encouragement for people questioning their gender, and for those supporting them, to show tolerance, compassion and respect rather than judgement.