Who am I, and Who are You?

Joanne Lockwood is joined by Roland Chester for a wide-ranging conversation about identity, labels, and the “hats” we wear in different contexts. Together they explore how intersectionality shows up in everyday life and why being able to bring your whole self to work matters for wellbeing, connection, and performance.

Roland shares his lived experience of being a gay man who once stayed closeted at work, and the shift he felt when he entered an environment where he could be open. He also speaks candidly about being diagnosed with HIV and AIDS, the stigma he encountered, and the impact workplace responses had on his ability to be authentic and on his mental health. The discussion covers myths and current information about HIV, including advances in treatment and prevention, and why education is still essential.

The episode also looks at how people make fast, automatic judgements, the role of unconscious bias, and how “slow thinking” can help us challenge assumptions. Joanne and Roland reflect on inclusion, safety, and belonging across workplaces and societies, including how visible and hidden aspects of identity can affect how people are treated. Roland closes by sharing his work in advocacy and education, including his book and involvement with the Positive Allies charter mark.